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 Mexico Dangerous? Find out...

4/10/2014

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Oh God, we’re going to be stabbed or kidnapped, probably killed. Certainly robbed. This is what I get for being cheap.  

These were my thoughts as I sat in the back of a scruffy taxi several nights ago in Mexico City. Beside me sat my eleven-year-old son Quinn and in the front sat my husband Rob next to the taxi driver. A few moments before, back at the bus terminal, we could have taken one of the safe ‘securidad’ authorized taxis to our friends’ place. But no. Those taxis were more expensive, and besides, we’d already taken regular taxis off the street in Mexico City and they were perfectly fine. As were all the taxis we’d just been taking the past month in Oaxaca, along with all the local buses. The vast majority of Mexico, I was always saying to friends, is safe. Being afraid of a place like San Miguel de Allende, or anywhere in Oaxaca, is like being afraid of Ithaca, New York, or Brattleboro, Vermont, just because there are murders in East L.A. It’s buying into the media’s ridiculous hysteria of a dangerous Mexico.  

But perhaps Mexico City was a different story. Especially since this twenty-year-old taxi driver, who claimed he knew exactly where our destination was—Polanco, a nice neighbourhood half an hour away—obviously didn’t have a clue where it was. Or maybe he did know but it was irrelevant since his real goal was to take us to an ATM at gun point. After leaving the bus terminal, he’d driven three minutes down a main thoroughfare, did a U-turn, drove back the same way, then called someone on his phone as he roared down the road. Next he stopped at a gas station and this is where I got suspicious. I didn’t see him get any gas, although Rob thought he had actually stuck the gas hose in for ten seconds. Rob didn’t seem worried in the least. Then again, he wasn’t a seasoned traveller like I was. And he hadn’t read about Mexico City Taxi Driver Kidnappings. Rob is laidback. I am too, usually, but not when a taxi driver in a dodgy taxi is making frantic phone calls while driving—probably to his criminal conspirators—and now, Jesus Christ!—actually talking  to a scary-looking guy in a black car at the gas station.  

“What the hell is going on?” I said to Rob. “This doesn’t look good. Why is he talking to that guy? Does he know him? Are they friends? His friend just happens to be at the same gas station at the same time?”  

“I’m sure he’s just asking the guy for directions, relax,” said Rob.  

How could I relax in this situation? And now that we were back on the road, the scary guy in the black car was following us. After five minutes, our driver turned off and careened into a dark alley. Really dark. Deserted. He stopped the car and got on his phone again. The guy in the black car was still behind us in the alley. I was planning our escape, my heart pounding. “Should we get out now? I whispered. “Just leave our bags in the trunk and run for it?” Quinn seemed to think this whole thing was funny and hugely exciting. Rob just thought it was funny, which I found incredibly naïve. When the taxi driver got off the phone I pointed at the guy in the black car behind us and said, “Tu amigo?” Your friend? That would show him I was onto him. He answered no, but I didn’t catch the rest. My Spanish isn’t that great and he was mumbling, probably not wanting to give away the illicit details of the imminent crime.  

Then we were driving again, back onto a highway, then another, then another, for many miles. The guy in the black car was still behind us. I knew it was the same guy because I kept asking Quinn, and Quinn is a car geek. He knows the make and model of every car ever made. All I recognized was the car was black and old-ish. After that I wouldn’t have had a clue.  

“Rob, this is bad. We're still being followed. And why is he on the phone again?”  

“He must be getting directions. Do you really think if he was going to rob us he’d have wasted this much gas? If he was going to kill us he’d have done it already.”  

“Oh, you do have a point.”  

Half an hour later we were still driving, but we’d now lost the guy in the black car. Earlier, I’d recognized a sign for the anthropology museum so knew we were close to the right neighbourhood, but twenty minutes had gone by since then. We really were lost. The guy didn’t have a clue where he was going. On the bright side, I was starting to relax about him murdering us. Then, things started looking familiar. Suddenly, I recognized our friends’ street. “Aqui!” This is it! The taxi driver looked positively gleeful.  

We got out and collected our bags and I considered kissing the pavement. I was so relieved not to be dead in an alley, and so grateful to the sweet young taxi driver who’d gone to so much trouble to find the place—even eliciting the help of a random stranger at a gas station (who was that nice guy in the black car?)—that I paid the driver more than what the authorized taxi would have cost. He looked confused when I told him to keep the change, then flashed me a huge grin.  

“How did you know he wasn’t going to do something horrible?” I asked Rob after the driver drove off.  

“Because I could see him texting his girlfriend. He kept sending her heart emoticons and she was sending them back. You don’t send hearts in the middle of criminal activity.”  

The moral? Don’t be too hard on Mexico. Or its lovely citizens.

by Laurie Gough

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For more on Mexico, see my previous post, Ten Things You Probably Don’t Know About San Miguel de Allende  

Stay tuned for my upcoming post on our adventures in the state of Oaxaca.  

  

 


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Ku King link
4/10/2014 12:37:55 pm

I have had a couple of similar incidents in Mexico! I was pretty nervous the first time I was in Mexico City, but had an amazing and wonderful time. Incidentally, have just been to Golden Bay in NZ. After reading 'Kite Strings'. (one of my favourite books) I had always wanted to go and finally made it! It lived up to expectations - a very special place!

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Greg Kelley
4/12/2014 05:46:02 am

You had me on the edge of my seat right till the end. Makes me want to go to Mexico City right now!

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Bruce Philips
4/14/2014 09:13:56 am

Loved your story, Laurie!

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Nacho
4/29/2014 04:11:04 am

loved the ending ,was on the edge of my seat to see what was going to happened as I kept reading...that should be a good media topic.

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Mary Watts
10/1/2014 11:14:18 am

I have so much to add here. I agree that Mexico isn't as dangerous as people say. As the media says. it's not people who are saying this it's the news. it feels a bit like a conspiracy to get people to stay in north America and spend their money there. we live in mexico for six months and have never had a single problem. we love Mexicans. thank you for shedding light on this.

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Megan Hood
10/3/2014 01:08:29 am

I read an article you wrote about San Miguel de Allende that made me go there and fall in love with it. Don't you go there anymore?

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Laurie
10/3/2014 01:14:27 am

Hi Megan, I haven't been to San Miguel in a couple years but will go back some day for sure. See my earlier post here on San Miguel.

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JP Bond
10/12/2014 12:24:11 am

I find Mexico City less dangerous than Miami. And much more interesting. I'm moving back to Mexico this winter to work.

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